Recently I spent some time reflecting on my life and started thinking about if I could only do one last thing in this lifetime what would it be? This may sound crazy, but I would sing! I would walk outside and sing so loud, hoping the birds would join in. I would sing about the sun that shines in my heart every day. I would sing about love, how God loves me and how much I love Him. I would sing about the love I have for my family, especially my mom. I would sing about how crazy, loving and special my friends are to me. I would sing joyfully about all the lessons learned every trial and tribulation. I would sing to let the universe know how much I appreciate being a part of it. I would sing because I am free!
What would you do?
THE CRAB MENTALITY sometimes referred to as crabs in a bucket or barrel, is a way of thinking and is best described as "IF I CAN'T........ THEN NEITHER CAN YOU" This metaphor refers to crabs that are trapped in a bucket and their focus is on saving oneself rather than working together to save or support the entire group.
This same analogy can be applied to human behavior, as members of a group will attempt to prevent any member from moving forward from the other members. As a result, none of the members of the group are able to excel or achieve success. This behavior can be attributed to envy, spite or selfishness.
The end result, as an individual, you become STUCK and SURROUNDED by people with the attitude of, "IF I CAN'T ...... THEN NEITHER CAN YOU". As a result, you will not be able to move forward but live a life of status quo, rather than pursuing what you want to achieve. If you are a victim of the CRAB MENTALITY, here are 3 things you can do to move forward.
1. You must BELIEVE that you can move forward and accomplish whatever you want. If you don't believe it you will not be able to move forward.
2. SURROUND yourself with positive, and supportive people. This is especially important if you have doubts. Surround yourself with people that believe in you until you are centered and have the confidence to believe in yourself.
3. You must do the WORK. Have a plan, things just don't happen by chance. Seek out the tools, resources, and support you need to help you move forward.
Know this, when the student is ready the teacher will appear! Do not allow other people to hold you back. Go forward and live the life you want!
BE THE MOST POWERFUL YOU + LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT!